I, Me, Myself

電影或影集裡面，
常常聽得到動人的結婚誓詞或真情告白，
你印象最深刻的台詞有哪些呢？

猴子最近看完 Grey's Anatomy，
第三季結尾時 Burke 說了超級感人的結婚誓詞 (wedding vow)，
在此和大家分享。

Burke: Cristina...I could promise...to hold you...and to cherish you. I could promise to be there in sickness and in health. I could say...till death do us part. But I won't. Those vows are for...optimistic couples, the ones full of hope. And I do not stand here on my wedding day optimistic or full of hope. I am not optimistic. I am not hopeful. I am sure. I am steady. And I know. I am a heart man. I take 'em apart. I put 'em back together. I hold them in my hands. I am a heart man. So of this I am sure...you are my partner...my lover...my very best friend. My heart, my heart...beats for you. And on this day, the day of our wedding, I promise you this...I promise you to lay my heart in the palm of your hands. I promise you... me.

Burke 和 Cristina 都是感情很內斂的人，
能讓 Burke 說出這種話，可見他們真得愛的很深。
在感動之餘，我也找了其它幾部電影的台詞，
讓我們來回味一下這些感人的片段吧…

As Good as It Gets (1997) 愛在心裡口難開

Melvin Udall: I might be the only person on the face of the earth that knows you're the greatest woman on earth. I might be the only one who appreciates how amazing you are in every single thing that you do, and how you are with Spencer, "Spence," and in every single thought that you have, and how you say what you mean, and how you almost always mean something that's all about being straight and good. I think most people miss that about you, and I watch them, wondering how they can watch you bring their food, and clear their tables and never get that they just met the greatest woman alive. And the fact that I get it makes me feel good, about me.

The Notebook (2004) 手札情緣

Young Noah: My Dearest Allie. I couldn't sleep last night because I know that it's over between us. I'm not bitter anymore, because I know that what we had was real. And if in some distant place in the future we see each other in our new lives, I'll smile at you with joy and remember how we spent the summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. I'll be seeing you. Noah

When Harry Met Sally... (1989) 當哈利遇上莎莉

Harry Burns: I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

I hope this day shine eternally in our lives. It may add brilliance to every achievement and cast a divine light over any bad luck. I will care for you in all sadness and trouble. I will cheer you each and every day. I will do my best to make you feel safe in my arms. I will stay true to you for the rest of my life. This I promise you ...

Runaway Bride (1999) 落跑新娘

Ike Graham: Look, I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee that at some point, one or both of us is gonna want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life, because I know, in my heart, you're the only one for me.
（本句台詞出現兩次，先是男主角對女主角說，後來女主角反用這段話向男主角求婚。）

Friends 624 六人行

Monica: Chandler...In all my life...I never thought I would be so lucky. (Starting to cry.) As to...fall in love with my best...my best...There's a reason why girls don't do this!

Chandler: Okay! (He joins her on one knee) Okay! Okay! Oh God, I thought...(Starting to cry, pauses) Wait a minute, I-I can do this. (Pause)I thought that it mattered what I said or where I said it. Then I realized the only thing that matters is that you, (Pause) you make me happier than I ever thought I could be. (Starting to cry again.) And if you'll let me, I will spend the rest of my life trying to make you feel the same way. (Pause as he gets out the ring.) Monica, will you marry me?

Hitch (2005/I) 全民情聖

Hitch: Because that's what people do. They leap, and hope to God they can fly, because otherwise you just drop like a rock, wondering the whole way down, why in the *hell* did I jump? But here I am, Sarah, falling, and the only one that makes me feel like I can fly... is you.

A Beautiful Mind (2001) 美麗境界

Nash: I've made the most important discovery of my life. It's only in the mysterious equation of love that any logical reasons can be found. I'm only here tonight because of you. You are the only reason I am...you are all my reasons.

Bridget Jones's Diary (2001) BJ單身日記1

Mark Darcy: I don't think you're an idiot at all. I mean, there are elements of the ridiculous about you. Your mother's pretty interesting. And you really are an appallingly bad public speaker. And, um, you tend to let whatever's in your head come out of your mouth without much consideration of the consequences... But the thing is, um, what I'm trying to say,  very inarticulately, is that, um, in fact, perhaps despite appearances, I like you, very much. Just as you are.

最後，讓我用「愛是你，愛是我」的一段話來做結尾吧。

Love Actually (2003)

Prime Minister: Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion's starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don't see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often it's not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it's always there - fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends. When the planes hit the Twin Towers, as far as I know none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge - they were all messages of love. If you look for it, I've got a sneaking suspision love actually is all around. 
 

【附錄】結婚誓詞官方正式版

Wedding Ceremony Script--Vows:

I, _(name)__ , take you, _(name)__ , to be my partner, loving what I know of you, and trusting what I do not yet know.
I promise to love you as you are, and not to try to change you. You are the person I want you to be, and the one with whom I want to be.
I eagerly anticipate getting to know the person you will become as we go through life together and fall in love a little more every day.
I promise to love you without reservation, and give you comfort when you need comfort, and space when you need space.
I vow to encourage you to achieve all of your goals, to hold you close as we laugh and as we cry, to grow with you in mind and spirit, to always be open and honest with you, and to cherish you through whatever life may bring us. Our future lies in the path we have chosen together.
I promise to work by your side to create a life that we can cherish, inspiring your love for me and mine for you, and to grow old by your side as your love and your best friend.


Declaration of marriage :

Officiant: "By the power vested in me by the State of Minnesota, I witness and affirm your union of love and pronounce you husband and wife. You may now seal your union with a kiss" (*kiss*)


Introduction of newlyweds:

Officiant: " I now present to you for the very first time as husband and wife - Groom and Bride (Lastname) !"